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Friday, December 30, 2011

Introducing: The SHE |in| ME {and Happy 1st Birthday to my blog!)

Woooo hooo! I am on FIRE and so EXCITED for the move of God that is taking place right now. We have roughly ONE more day left of 2011 before we can officially mark it: EXPIRED! For some, the new year isn't a big deal, but for me.....its everything! You will never get a 2012 again, and will never see everything that has a date of 2011 again either, so why not get excited about anything NEW? At first I was going to wait until after the start of the new year to launch my first goal, but I couldn't contain myself. Because I want to stop being so fearful, I decided to just GO FOR IT! So, yesterday I went into labor and pushed out a beautiful baby girl named: THE SHE |in| ME- my first goal for 2012!

The SHE |in| ME is dedicated to help Save, Help, and Empower the "SHE" inside every woman! Our goal is to encourage, inspire, motivate, support, and love one another, helping every woman to be launched further into her destiny. I am super blessed & ecstatic that we are putting one foot forward towards completing our goals, and we are kicking fear, procrastination, low-self esteem, and more in the butt! Lol! Its time that women everywhere be all God has called us to be and more! Let's stop talking about it and actually BE about it! 2012 is a year of elevation, and I don't want you to get left behind. If you're on facebook, check out the page & join the movement if you're led (just click HERE)! Greater things are in store for you & I, so get ready, get excited, and embrace the NEW YEAR! Just in case I don't get a chance to make another post before 2012 gets here, I would like to yell, shout, & scream......

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

ANNNNND

HAPPY "1ST" BIRTHDAY TO MY BLOG! 
(Check out my very 1st blog post HERE)

God is sooooo good! I'm nothing without him! He deserves it ALL! Bless his holy name & just thank him for every painful, hurtful, disappointing, frustrating, happy, joyful, confusing, peaceful, and meaningful experience you've encountered this year because it was ALL for your GOOD!

PRAISE GOD! Its only UP from here!!!!! NO WEAPON formed shall prosper!


P.S. You can also purchase my natural body butters via the facebook page! Just click 'SHOP' underneath the profile picture and purchase a treat or two or ten for your skin, lol! Thanks for your support & please share the page with women everywhere! I'm so thankful! God bless.....DEUCES!

Wednesday, December 28, 2011

GUEST BLOGGER: Vanessa Wilson (LILAC)

My last guest blogger, or should I say guest POETESS for 2011 is none other than my beautiful sister and friend, Vanessa Wilson. I hope this blesses you as it did me cause' this "chick" has skills, lol! Enjoy! *snaps fingers*.....lol! If you would like to be a guest blogger, just let me know! I'd love to publish your content for others to enjoy. You never know, your words may be the breakthrough that at least one person needs! Check out all of my 2010 guest bloggers HERE.




THE LILAC THAT IS IN ME
Whoaaaaa omggggggggg did you see

Do you see the lilac that is in me


Im sure u cant see within me


But theme that is inside of u oh myyyyy what is a girl to do


Oh wowwww how that lilac lights up the room


It burns as if it was a scented candle


You can smell it across the room


You see him….oh he can smell it too


What is the smell of your lilac


Mine is the smell of sweetness and hurt


The pain of the earth


But we all feel this way huh


I don’t think so


Because your lilac is of a different aroma


The lilac that is within me yearns for more


What is my more


Ha


How about you worry about your more


My lilac yearns for what it yearns


And sometimes this yearning turns to a burning


The lilac that I have used to bloom like the flowers every spring


Now my lilac blooms…… well….it’s just began to bud


My lilac babyyyyyy is a beautiful color


You can see it shine even on my darkest day


My lilac has learned to push through even though some petals

have fallen

I cannot stop this lilac from growing even if it is as slow as

molasses

My lilac will soon bloom because I have yet to forsaken who I am


The lilac that is within me….oh you’ll see


I will have my flower before I leave this earth


For the lilac that is within me isssss ME


For if no one else delivers me another flower


I will bloom one all by myself


For the lilac that is within me…….IS NOW FREE

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

[INTO THE ATMOSPHERE]

I know its been a while since my last [INTO THE ATMOSPHERE] post (click HERE to read it), but nevertheless, I am still in the challenge! Below are just a few things I've been speaking into the atmosphere over the last two months, and will be doing so more as the last days of 2011 come to an end, and I'm going to continue this challenge on into the new year. I believe everything I've said and know that if they are in God's will, they SHALL come to pass in the name of Jesus! Though we only have a few days left in 2011, you can STILL join the challenge. Just click HERE.


[INTO THE ATMOSPHERE]
I am living a stress-free life! No complaints. No worries. No regrets. My mind is FREE. My body is FREE. My heart is FREE. My love is FREE. My soul is FREE. I have a zero tolerance for mess, gossip, and hurtful words. I am happy, care-free, full of faith, joy, love, hope, and peace. Negative, pessimistic, and hateful people have no place in my life. I am healthy, am not losing my mind, am mentally stable, and head strong! I am pressing on in spite of the situation and will continue to speak LIFE! IT IS SO!

his is only one of a few cars that I will own. I AM GOING to bless a single, God-fearing, hardworking father of four who never thinks he'd be able to drive/afford something like thisl. It is so!

I will have beautiful, healthy, smart, intelligent, humorous, respectful, obedient, caring, kind, and well-mannered children. They will not be children of the "norm", for they will stand out & shine in a very humble and unique way. Above all else, they will know God in the womb & prayerfully continue to keep him first in their lives. They will also lead their friends to Christ & make their mother (me) & father very PROUD! They will leave a rich legacy and inheritance for their children, and their children's children by the seeds they will sow. If it be God's will, then IT IS SO!

I am RICH......VERY RICH......." as boldly said by Ne-Ne (Housewives of Atlanta), lol! Not only am I RICH in material possessions, but I am RICH in my faith, intellect, abilities, skills, talents, love, thoughts, actions, uniqueness, praise, happiness, joy, forgiveness, transparency, ministry, relationships, future marriage.....and more! If it be God's will for me, then IT IS SO! Psalm 37:4- DELIGHT yourself IN THE LORD and he will give you the DESIRES of your heart!

James 4:2- .........You do not have, because you do not ask God (In order to receive, you have to do so with the RIGHT motives; not just for self)

My *future* husband IS a praise and a worshiper of God! In difficult moments, he doesn't give into temptation and fold under pressure, but he falls on his knees, lifts his hands, and cries out loud to God in a praise, knowing that he will fix what is broken. His faith is strong & he is the ultimate provider. He prays for his family consistently and even while I sleep, he covers me in prayer unknowingly. He knows that only God will keep our family together, that's why he had to be in God in order to find me. If it be God's will for my life, then IT IS SO!

The keys to ONE of my businesses. I will also be blessed enough to invest in someone else so that they too will be able to use their own set of keys to open the business that people told them they'd never have! IT IS SO!

I will have a marriage ordained strictly by God himself. If God isn't it in, then we don't want it. My husband and I will love, cherish, respect, submit, reverence, acknowledge, encourage, motivate, strengthen, teach, listen to, forgive, inspire (etc., etc., etc.) one another just as God does us! If it be God's will, then IT IS SO!

Sunday, December 25, 2011

Merrrrrrrry CHRISTmas!!!!!!!!!!!! 2011

Hey my loves! I just wanted to make a quick post, spreading a bit of CHRISTmas cheer! I pray that your CHRISTmas was filled with CHRIST- first and foremost, and the enjoyment of family, friends, awesome gifts, and great food! Jesus is truly the reason for EVERY season, and I thank him so much just for being amazing & continuously blessing me & mine in spite of! As this CHRISTmas 2011 comes to a close, I want to take a moment to say HAPPY BIRTHDAY JESUS! I must admit, I was kind of thrown off track a bit earlier today and wasn't as focused on Jesus as I needed to be. But I had to snap back into reality & know its not about me, how I feel, or what I experienced, but it is allllll about the goodness and birth of Jesus Christ! I've been so busy the last few days and I know its only preparation for what's to come. By the way, this CHRISTmas I vowed NOT to get my family anything, but the money that I would normally spend on them was used to purchase things for less fortunate children. I adopted a 1 month, 5, and 11 year old this year to buy CHRISTmas gifts for! It did my heart some good to know that someone else besides my family that has just about everything, was blessed and taken care of! So no playing santa claus for me this year, lol. For once I could go in a store and not have to be confused about who to buy what for. I'm very grateful and looking forward to doing it more in 2012! Anywho, enough about me (lol)! 

Hope your CHRISTmas was all you wanted it to be & more!

I bless God for YOUR life & wish you the absolute best! 
KEEP "CHRIST" IN CHRISTmas!

Isn't Minnie the cutest thing ever??? Lol! She betta' step in her red heels, lol! MERRY CHRISTmas again everyone!

Thursday, December 15, 2011

DANG girl, why -you- write so much????

Don't let what others say/think  keep you from expressing yourself!
Lol! I bet alot of people have secretly asked themselves that about me and/or have discussed it publicly amongst themselves & others! Some people have even told me themselves that I "write too much" or my facebook statuses are "too long". Yep, I've had people to *hint* at it before, and I used to really get offended because those were MY words that I wanted to use to help those who desired to hear them (which is one, of many, reasons I decided to start blogging). I know that alot of people only read half of what I & others have to say because they don't feel like reading a "book" so to say, lol! But as I allowed God to speak to me today concerning that, I had to even ask myself...."Shenina, why DO you write alot?" And God revealed to me just as plain as day that part of my *POWER* lies in my words! Wooooo Jesus! Umph....if that wasn't tough, I don't know what was....lol! It makes sense to me now. Writing is a form of expression. The older I get, the more I see that I'd rather write than talk. It doesn't mean that I'm a mean person, it just means that I'm finding "who I am" even more & what I like and do not like to do. I'm not the best writer, but when the spirit of the Lord is on me, its just on me, lol! No love lost, much respect gained!


Many of us, including me, have missed the opportunity to be blessed spiritually, mentally, emotionally, physically, and even financially because we DON'T want to read! I've had three FREE giveaways that I know of where you only had to READ in order to participate. Nothing major, and it didn't cost you a thing. Well, each and everytime I did it, only one maybe two or three people responded, and that was fine. But I'm sure many others would have loved to be blessed if only they had just READ to the end! I too am guilty of this and sometimes will only read half of what I see, but I'm trying to do better, especially if I want others to do the same to me! Just imagine how God feels. We get right to the end of our breakthroughs (blessings) but we give up prematurely because we don't "feel" like continuing on! Hmph...hmph...hmph, shame on us!

Some inquiring minds wanted to know, so I hope this helps, lol. I know that many people will never admit that, but the truth shall set you FREE! Even as to facebook & this blog, it is a *personal* account and means to express myself, just as you have the opportunity to do so as well. Don't knock someone down just because they are expressing themselves. When you publicly post something, you want people to be interested in what you have to say as well, so do unto others as you'd have them do unto you. Some people are wordy (I know I am, and I'm trying to cut it back just a bit, lol!), and some people don't have much to say YET regardless of what type of writer or thought expresser you are, both carries alot of weight.YOU have the choice whether to read what someone posts or not. I've gotten looked over and skipped over plenty of times, but I'd rather that happen then for people who don't care anything for me read what God has given me!
It is what it is ya' know?  Don't want to stick around? Then KICK ROCKS!

So keep kicking! Lol! I've always heard that if you don't want someone to know something, put it in in a book....and that is so true to some extent because we as a people overall don't like to read. I'm breaking out of that habit now because my breakthrough & even my blessings could very well lie in what a person has to say! If you don't like what someone says, then you do have the option to unfriend/unsubscribe to them on facebook, unfollow them on twitter/blogger, and more. But just remember, you reap what you sow and though one may see your words as meaningless, someone, somewhere out there in the world may see them as meaningFUL!! I truly thank those that have stuck it out with me. I have yet to get around to everyone like I want to, but please be patient because I value your words just as much as you do mine! I may not say it everyday, but I truly do and I'm so appreciative! God bless & love ya' regardless! HAPPY READING everyone.....lol!

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

SINNER: YOU have the audacity to dream??? Hmph....

So, maybe someone told you that you're crazy for wanting to do "that". Or someone told you that you'll never be able to successfully accomplish & pull "that" off. Maybe someone told you that only -this type of people- can achieve "that". Or maybe even someone told you "that" is impossible because of the greatness of the task or because of your dark past.........

What?? YOU (yeah YOU that is reading this) have the audacity, the balls (<---no offense), the gall to dream? YOU- the one that is still fornicating....YOU- the one that used to be or still is a stripper or prostitute?....YOU- the one that was or is still addicted to drugs & alcohol?......YOU- the molester, the porn addict?....YOU- the robber, lier, cheater, abuser?.........YOU?????? You're not good enough! God will never forgive you! You're going to hell with gasoline drawers on! God doesn't want you! People will never respect you! You're not worthy enough to live a pleasing life! You are nasty! I don't want my children around you! I must turn my nose up at you because you aren't like me! You are so disgusting! I can't believe that you did that & still think God is going to forgive & bless you! You are a nothing, a nobody, you make me sick! Don't ever come around me again! You'll never have better because of what you did/are doing! I'm still tripping off the fact that you are still dreaming & thinking BIG......Ugggggh!

The above may sound a tad bit harsh, but truthfully speaking, there are thousands upon thousands, even millions of people who have heard, are hearing, or will hear those words. My intentions weren't to offend anyone & this wasn't directed at just one person, but ALL OF US! The message behind this post is simply- NO MATTER WHAT YOU'VE DONE, ARE DOING, OR EVEN WHAT YOU WILL DO....GOD STILL LOVES & WILL FORGIVE YOU! Though it crushes my spirit & makes me want to fight---->even the child molesters can be forgiven! God can take what is broke, busted, & disgusted & make it NEW! If you don't believe me, look at YOURSELF! Yep, I said it.....look at YOURSELF!

Matthew 6:14-15- For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

If God wiped away each & every person that ever sinned from the face of this earth, there would be NO ONE..I mean NO ONE left. I don't even think there would be a bird. We have ALL fallen short (Romans 3:23- For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God). Therefore, judging others based off of their past is a huge NO NO, because in that case, you need to be judging yourself as well. True enough, the severity of some sins are in fact bigger than others, but a sin is still a sin is still a sin. Many people have a huge misconception on that matter, and I won't get into details about it. But though both lying about taking the candy & killing someone are both sins, one carries a more severe consequence.

I said all of that to say this, I don't care WHAT you've done because you're never too filthy, too low, or too nasty that God can't turn you around & make everything you went through work out for your good & his glory! YESSSSSS, YOU can still dream & accomplish goals! YESSSSSS, YOU can still be successful!! YESSSSS, YOU can still be the person God has called you to be! People will never allow you to live your future because they're too stuck on your past. That's why its important to know that your actions now may cost you alot of pain later (reputation). BUT...and once again, I thank God for the "BUTs", when you are in HIM, you are a new creature! He and only he will work situations out to where you'll know that NOBODY did this BUT God!

Now, though you'll be forgiven of your sins, it is NOT an excuse to continue sinning. When you sin, pray, repent, turn from your wicked ways, and live a life that's pleasing to God. Its just that simple. But whenever we sin, God will still punish us because he loves us just that much! Just as a parent disciplines a child to show them that they may not want to do that again & to teach them a lesson, the same goes for us & God because he wants us to learn from our mistakes. If you're currently sinning now, STOP it! For every temptation, God will ALWAYS make a way of escape. If you want freedom to make the right choices, then its yours...IF you want it! We have to get up & in there with God to show him just how sorry we really are because  if you're still dibbling and dabbling in sin thinking its all good, your next "please forgive me" may be too late! Repent today so that you can live tomorrow (if it be God's will for your life!).

The next time someone wants to throw up your past in the midst of you trying to do & be better, remind them that God has no respect of persons. If he did it for one, he'll do it for the next! In him, ALL things are new & because of that, we can move forward! You are NOT what you did! You can still dream & be successful! You can STILL make it! Though it may be tough, its not reason enough to think low of yourself. Depending on the sin, it can be a very touchy subject. But if we want what God has for us, we have to get to the surface of some things so he can begin the healing process! I could go on and on and throw a whole bunch of scriptures at ya', but I'll just leave you with these thoughts, lol.......Thanks for reading!

Monday, December 12, 2011

More things about NINA......(tag, you're it!)

 More tidbits about this NINA character, lol! Check out my 'HAVE YOU EVER' responses HERE

1. What's a nickname only your family calls you? Daisy...lol

2. What's a weird habit of yours? I chew my tongue

3. Do you have any weird phobias? Not as of now

4. What's a song you secretly LOVE to blast and belt out when you're alone? LOL! I'm On One or Headlines- by Drake *the cat's out the bag....lol!*

5. Biggest pet peeve? When people don't respond to my texts or facebook comments (I've done it too and its not a good feeling, lol! So I'm trying to do better)

6. Any nervous habits? I consistently pat and/or sometimes pull on the edges of my hair (lol)

7. What side of the bed do you sleep on? I mainly sleep on the left side. And now my mattress almost looks like a hill....lmbo!

8. First stuffed animal? ET
A MESS........lol!

9. What drink do you always order at Starbucks? We don't have a Starbucks here. But I do love Cappuccino & Hot Chocolate

10. What's the beauty rule that you preach but never ACTUALLY practice? Hmmm, to maybe drink more water. Sometimes I do & sometimes I don't.

11. Which way do you face in the shower? Facing the shower head

12. Do you have any weird body skills? Nope, not that I know of

13. Favorite comfort food that's 'bad' but you love anyway? Anything cheesy- pizza, lasagna, spaghetti, etc.

14. Phrase or exclamation you ALWAYS say? "Girrrrrrrl" or "Bay-beeeeee"

15. Time to sleep what are you ACTUALLY wearing? Lol! A t-shirt & some kind of comfortable pants. I MUST have on socks & a silk bonnet!

16. What's something you used to wear that you thought was cool but now you realize it wasn't that hot? The butterfly clips with the moving wings in middle school, lol! Back then, you better NOT had told me that it wasn't cute. I used to have about 3 of em' in my hair at one time....too cute. But NOW....bwahahahahahaah! Looking back , I see that it was NOT hot!


I saw this on another blog & decided to answer the questions! Now, I tag my sisters in hopes they'll answer the same questions on their blogs, lol (love y'all)!!!! Check them out when you get a chance........




PEEEEEEEACE! Thanks for reading......



Please get ta' STEPPIN'.......DEUCES!

If I can be honest & open with you, I have yet to *completely* let a guy that I used to be in a relationship with go. I know that I haven't thoroughly healed from the hurt because anytime I physically see anything that he does, says, or how he interacts with others, I get a bit emotional. Sometimes when that happens, I look up at Jesus and I'm like "REALLY GOD????? I'M SUPPOSED TO BE 'SO' OVER HIM RIGHT NOW!!!". Though my emotions are faaaaar from where they used to be concerning him, there is still a tinsy winsy part of me that still genuinely loves him. When you love, and I mean really LOVE someone, you will never completely get over them (at least that's my opinion for now anyways). He just doesn't know how much I loved him. Well, no let me take that back, I'm sure he did know, but he just wasn't the man for ME! When someone knows your worth, whether it be friendships, family, relationships, etc., then they will do whatever is in their power to make it work and stick it out with you. Without going into a long, drawn out story, I'll just leave you with these few words.....

DEUCES!!!! PEACE ALL THE WAY OUT! Lol...
When someone wants to leave, LET THEM GO!!!!! At first in this relationship, I found myself making so many excuses for him & trying to prove to him WHY he should be with me, continuously showing him over and over how much I cared. I even tried my best to "convince" him that I was the best thing that ever happened and that he'd never find another like me.....lol! I can laugh about it now because then, baby I was SO serious! Lol! But I'm so glad that God removed him from my life because now I see that he wasn't FOR me. It only still hurts just a little because I'm still disappointed in alot of things he did to me, but that's another story by itself, lol.

We cannot MAKE folks stay with us. When they say they want to go, let them! When they say they'll never talk to you again a day in their life, let it be! When they say they don't want to be with you, believe them!!!!! I used to try to "make" things work with him & say things like, "Well, he's just saying that now because he's mad"...or "He'll come around, and when he does I'll be right here waiting for him"....or, "WHEN he recognizes what he has, then he'll apologize & everything will be better"....or, "I know he's the one for me, so I'll just stick it out until he comes to his senses".....bwahahahaah! LOL! OMGsh, that is just so funny to me now because I've truly grown & matured a whoooooole lot!

So in short, ACCEPT whatever God allows! Them leaving you was not an accident! You deserve so much better than to have someone who really isn't down with you continue wasting space in your life. We MUST release these folks who don't want to be with us or apart of our lives and what we have going on. Its actually not that hard, you just have to know your WORTH! When you know that, then things will come much easier. At the time, I didn't know just how valuable I was and that there was some Man of God praying for the day God will send him searching for someone like "me". I'm slowly releasing him because its' not fair to the man God is preparing me for. I truly believe that's one reason why many single women who seek God & desire to be married have not been blessed with the opportunity yet because we are still trying to hold on to past relationships that weren't ordained by God (that's another story as well, lol!!!)! Only until we release the toxins will we be able to have a fresh start. So baby, it was fun while it lasted, but as you grow higher in God, the higher he will take you! If they don't want to be apart of your life or see the value in you, then let them GO!!!!!!!!! Boo, I can't make you love me, I can't make you stay with me, I can't make you do anything......so please, get ta' steppin'!!!!!!!

I stumbled upon this video the other night as I was talking to God & thinking about some situations I encountered with "friends". I had one friend that totally gave up on our friendship over a mere misunderstanding, and in turn she tried to belittle me publicly, lol! But oohhhh baby-baby, I'm so glad that Jesus is a fence because I could have let her HAVE IT!!! Do you hear me??? Lol! But I didn't because first of all, its not in my character & second of all, I know that it wasn't "her" so to say, but its the spirit within her. So when she wanted to leave me, I had no other choice but to LET HER GO!......DEUCES! *almost had a Chris Brown moment*....LOLLLLLLLLLLLLL!

I love how God works through Bishop T.D. Jakes. Feel free to share how you feel about the message in the video! :-) Thanks for reading.....

Saturday, December 10, 2011

Now that's a BAAAAAAD chick!

Lol! The blog post titles crack me up sometimes, lol! Anywho, I have been SUPER blessed to be afforded the opportunity to meet sooooo many fabulous Women of God, whether through blogging or just facebook alone. For the new year, I would like to do a *"Baaaaad Chick" series where I'll feature many amazing women that are doing the darn thing with their lives, careers, businesses, ministries, etc. But today, this very short post will be dedicated to women EVERYWHERE who are holding it dowwwwn (no offense to the men, lol).

We as women wear so many hats. We are mothers, sisters, business owners, cousins, aunts, friends, wives, cooks, cleaners/janitors, ministry leaders, chauffeurs, nurses/doctors, teachers, caregivers, encouragers, motivators, & more....shoot, some of us are even mechanics! LOL! With those hats come responsibilities, many of which seem unbearable sometimes. But for those doing whatever you have to in order to get er' done....I personally say WAY TO GOOOOOO! Your hard-work is not overlooked. Though I may not be able to physically see what you're doing or even know you personally, I still know that you're doing SOMETHING right and that by itself is worthy enough to be praised! I don't know how it personally feels to have to hold down an 8 hour or more job, attend to a husband, children, & more all in one day, but I can only imagine how tedious & hectic some things can get, so I HONOR YOU!

Regardless of what you're doing & how much of it you're doing, keep going! I know sometimes you want to give up and throw in the towel, and some days you may not even know whether you're going or coming, but the God inside of you is able to accomplish it ALL! You are a strong woman, you are a powerful woman, you are a worthy woman at whom God is pleased with. With him, ALL things are possible, so I encourage you to keep pressing on my sister. Put God first & look to him for the strength you need to wear all of your hats & then some. Shoot, you are handling things like a pro....and that itself makes you a BAAAAAAD CHICK!

I will give more information about the ~BAAAD Chick~ series in the new year! But for now, if you're making it do what it do & aren't stopping short of success & accomplishing your goals, then kudos to YOU lovely ladies! We have destinies to tap into & must continue walking in our purpose no matter how bad the storms "appear". With God as our guide, we can just enjoy the ride! Have a great day BAAAD CHICKS! *muah*

IF YOU'RE A ~BAAAD CHICK~ & YOU KNOW IT, SHOW SOME SIGN & LEAVE A COMMENT! FROM THE COMMENTS MADE, I WILL USE RANDOM.ORG TO CHOOSE ONE WINNER OF A 4 OZ. SUGAR HAND SCRUB TO SHOW MY APPRECIATION TO THOSE WHO ACTUALLY READ MY POSTS ALL THE WAY TO THE END, LOL! FOR ALL THE HARD WORK YOU DO WITH YOUR HANDS, TREAT THEM TO SOMETHING SWEET & MOISTURIZING! THANK YOU! GIVEAWAY ENDS SUNDAY, DECEMBER 11 AT MIDNIGHT (CST). GIVEAWAY NOW CLOSED!!!! :-)



**FYI: The term "BAAAD" via this blog doesn't mean [bad] as in something negative or wrong, but it simply means that you are WORTHY, SHOW-STOPPING, HONORABLE, etc.....The term [chick] is just a term used to refer to a girl/woman....nothing derogatory or anything like that. Just a funky & cute way to say....You are an HONORABLE WOMAN, lol!!!!!**

Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Be FREE.....

You CAN be FREE right now! Be FREE from brokenness, free from hurtful words, free from what momma & daddy did, free from homosexuality, free from what they said about you, free from what was done behind closed doors, free from generational curses, free from the things that happened in your childhood that wasn't your fault, free from confusion & worry, free from depression & suicidal thoughts, free from addictions & strongholds, free from the mess & drama, free from promiscuity & prostitution, free from what you did last night, free from what you just did..........be FREE! God is REAL & he's waiting to free you RIGHT NOW! Please listen to this song & allow God to speak to you. No matter what you've done or how many times you've done it, God is STILL merciful & he STILL loves you right where you are! You're not too dirty or filthy that he can't clean you up and make your brand new again---no matter what you did! Its not an excuse to keep doing the same things, but just know that no matter what people say, God will pick you up and dust you off time after time! He's waiting to FREE you right now, wherever you are. Give it ALL to him! Be blessed my brothers & sisters and allow the Joy of the Lord to completely consume you. He cares and he knows. Free yourself ......

This is one of my favorite songs. Its so real, raw, & pure. I know thousands/millions have been touched. God bless Kierra Sheard for allowing God to go higher in her life! This song is on another level. BE FREE.....In the name of Jesus....

Ummm, he just calls you BOO.....

And he doesn't even know your WHOLE name!!!!!!! When I first heard that song, I was stunned. And what gets me is that people actually like it, especially females. I don't have to listen to or know the rest of th song because just that part alone says so much (just my personal opinion). So sir, you don't know my whole name? Oh okay,  you aren't worthy enough to be in my space then.......is what alot of females should be saying. The sad part is that many young women dance to it, laugh at it, and think its cute, but in actuality the "guy" is saying that your name isn't even worth remembering! So is it cute now?

Ladies, do you REALLY want to be a "boo" to a man that doesn't know your name? Don't you know that you're so much more valuable than that? You have a name and if he can't remember it and respect the woman in you, then it says alot about him. BUT....we can't solely put the blame on the guys because our ladies don't respect themselves either. Society has given many of our young women permission to degrade themselves, and because they aren't being raised properly, they are becoming victims of explicit acts that will have an affect on them forever.I didn't want this post to be a long one, but I hope it enlightens the minds/hearts of the readers.
LOL! WOW....and this is how some guys feel about our young ladies!

Even if this small bit of advice doesn't necessarily hit home with you, share it with someone. We as women must teach our young ladies that they are more precious than anything. Money, cars, houses, clothes, jewelry, trips, etc. are not enough to buy them. Regardless if its common or not, your God-given birth name is what sets you apart. So if someone is just that "high & mighty" to the point they can't love, respect, & cherish your name just as God does, then why in the world do you even want them to be apart of your life? My sister, you are BEAUTIFUL. If he can't remember your name but just calls you Boo, then that means you're not important enough to him because if you were, he'd remember almost everything about you and then even try to learn some more.

Though I know "boo" is a common nickname that many people refer to others as (even I do it), I surely won't just call you that because I don't know your name, lol. At least I'll have the decency to ask you what your name is again before continuing to call you boo over and over again, lol. But seriously ladies, your name should be one of the first things people remember about you. If you allow young men to degrade you & continue calling you things other than that, then it says alot about you. You are VALUABLE....you are WORTHY....and you ARE AWESOME! If a young man can't see the greatness inside of you, then he doesn't DESERVE to know your name in the first place!

Thanks for reading :-)